From Awkward to D.C. Fashion Week
Posted by admin on January 15, 2012 awkward | blog | Tags: bullies, bully, bullying, child, childhood, confidence, d.c., drama, dream, featured, individuality, kenny wesley, mean, music, musician, richlands NC, sad, self-esteem, singer, talent, unique, washington | 3 comments
I’ve been pretty unique all my life. I never wanted to fit in with the popular crowd. Well, I did think they were pretty interesting at times… but I never wanted to change who I was just to be accepted by them. Hence, I was labeled “awkward” by my peers growing up. Actually, the concept of assimilating never even seemed like an option in my mind for some reason or another. Needless to say, I was the butt of many a joke. Whether it was because of a hand-me-down outfit I had on, my walk, or the way I talked – there was always something to be said about Kenny. I’d be lying if I told you the things they said didn’t hurt. In fact, they cut quite deep. And yet, for some reason, I seemed to assert my individuality even more.
I was a great student and I excelled in music. Despite the daily taunts, my classmates were extremely attentive and receptive whenever I sang or played piano. Their response gave me enough confidence to make it through the rough times and served as a confirmation of my life-long dream of being a singer one day. I knew that if even they could recognize my gift, the world would one day also.
Later on in high school, I discovered many of my schoolmates who I thought couldn’t stand me actually admired me for always following the beat of my own drum (it would’ve been nice to have known that all along).
Fast-forward to 2012: I have the incredible opportunity of performing at D.C. Fashion Week on February 25. To me, this is such a full-circle moment. The kid who was once dubbed “weird” by his peers is summoned to perform original music for a crowd of fashion tastemakers. Please don’t misunderstand me, my life has not been a quest to find people who like me. However, it is a beautiful feeling to be appreciated, respected and loved for who you are and what you do! So, if this is where being awkward will get you – SIGN ME UP! :p
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Peace and Chicken Grease…
Ken
Wonderful piece! many of us who were once considered weirdos can relate to what you went through. There is nothing like being appreciated. Keep doing what you do and even more accolades and appreciation will come your way. This is only the beginning! Que sigas pa’lante!
Ha Ha Ha!!! I LOVE IT!
Inspiring story, Kenny. Can relate to this.